People won’t stop throwing nonsense at us and doing stupid stuff. When we act all emotional in return, we forget how to get things done because we’re focusing on the wrong thing.
I can’t tell you how much energy I’ve wasted in the weeds only to find out weeds are ugly, have no value, and choke out my objective.
The term “weeding out your garden” doesn’t mean pull them, spend time with them, and go give them some water and attention…it means quietly go nuke them and focus on the flowers.
Deeper Than a Puddle 