
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left but could say I’ve used everything you gave me.
Erma Bombeck

About Me
I’m Shandi. I’m a home grown country girl from Alabama, I’ve raised two amazing children, and own a real estate company. I cook, drink coffee in the mornings, enjoy my wine, love Jesus, and I cuss a little. I take care of people I love, I write when I have something to say, and I don’t mind sharing where I think I could do better.
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Nothing lasts forever and you can’t fall off the floor.
my Dad
Latest Thoughts…
- This, too, shall pass.
That thing you thought was going to rip your heart out? It didn’t. That thing you did that you were convinced was going to end your career? It didn’t. That thing that gave you so much anxiety your heart felt like it was beating a million times a minute and might pop through your chest?Continue reading “This, too, shall pass.” - Deeper Than a PuddleSome people want the ocean. Some people are perfectly happy playing in the puddle.
- Push the Flywheel
Just do it. - Protect Your Pollinators
The sweetest things in life only bloom where they feel safe enough to stay. - Once is enough.
…We should not have to manage someone’s memory or negotiate their motivation and being heard should not equal being a nag…

Why I Write
I’ve seen a lot of joy in my life and a lot of heartache, too. I’ve learned a lot about people and myself, and what I’ve found is the good is always at the end of something that feels bad. The blessings are from God and the lessons are in the time we spend learning what they are. Here’s where I write for my future grandkids to read and if anyone else wants to read it, that’s okay, too.
