Dear Beautifully Strong Willed Woman,

That very thing that makes you the most caring, tenacious, and resilient friend, sister, daughter, mother, mentor, and woman of God will make you a worthy and supportive woman to the man God👏 prepared 👏for 👏 you 👏.

All those trials and obstacles you overcame with those same qualities are not unitools, they’re the fiber of who you are and you shouldn’t ever muzzle that. If the man you care for is telling you you’re too strong willed because you have a voice and know how to articulate it, that’s him not listening or being able to accept that you bring value to the table with your own mind and life experience.

Men are designed to lovingly lead, so WAIT for the man who’s a leader… who listens to you and finds value in your strength and willingness to share it. A leader gathers, seeks out, ALL of the information and makes conscientious decisions with the ones he’s called to lead in mind.

Anything less than that is not leadership. You do your part in keeping your delivery calm and loving, but existent, and the man God prepared will embrace you.

❤

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