Sometimes being a mama means giving your child the info, providing them with the perspective of the bigger picture that comes from your wisdom through experience, and letting them earn their OWN wisdom through experience.
The life lessons I’ve learned the most from are the ones I experienced on my own with the guidance of those who love me and a little/lot of trial and error.
A few nuggets I hope my children take on as their own are:
- Look at & smell things before you eat them. There could be something nasty in there.
- People will spend your money if you let them. Don’t let them.
- Telling someone what they want to hear might shut them up, but if it’s not true it also makes you a liar. Don’t be a liar.
- “Love” is a choice, keep that in mind when the one who “loves you” doesn’t choose you. Not cool.
- God is always teaching you something very important when you’re in a struggle. Be patient and pay attention and you’ll figure it out.
- Always wear sunscreen. Always. Nobody is exempt from cancer.
- Not everyone is going to be happy if you’re successful. Don’t feel bad about that.
- Invest in a good bra & a good mattress. You spend at least 35%- 65%of your life in both. Be comfortable.
- Not all insurance policies are the same. Read them before you choose the cheaper premium.
- Bible verses should not be used as weapons. Or accepted as them, either. Use them to lovingly teach and lift up.
Deeper Than a Puddle 