“I can’t make anyone happy” “I’m just ruining everything“ “I’ll just quit”
No. What you need to do is stop being such a baby when someone calls you out on your bullshit and accept some responsibility. Self proclaiming yourself as the victim is lazy. And it’s annoying.
Don’t like where you are, CHANGE IT. Don’t like being called out for your oversights and mistakes, STOP making them or at least learn from them.
But don’t bait someone into consoling you off a cliff because you decided to walk there. You did it, you own it, you fix it.
Don’t know how? Just ask. You could probably ask the same person you just tried to manipulate into being the cohost of your pity party and I bet they could give you some great insight…or you could spend a hot minute doing some internal auditing and identify why you are the common denominator to your bunk situation.
And then change it.
Deeper Than a Puddle 