One of my favorite things to do, but one of my LEAST FAVORITE retorts to hear. Now let me explain because this is a little touchy…So, we prayed about it. That’s good, I think that’s what we should do. Ask for guidance, ask our friends to join us in prayer, even take a minute toContinue reading ““I prayed about it.””
Author Archives: Shandi White
Shit Pie is Better Than Plain Shit
Love tanks. Everyone has one and everyone’s has a gauge. You can’t see it, it’s not as cut and dry as looking in the dash of you car, but it’s there. And I bet when yours is on E, it feels a lot like undervalue or confusion. But when it’s full, it feels a lotContinue reading “Shit Pie is Better Than Plain Shit”
Turbidity
Turbidity is the measurement of how cloudy water is. If you see a beautiful creek turn brown and yuck, it’s because somewhere upstream someone’s doing some sloppy work and not keeping the dirt away from it. High turbidity. Those fabric fences, wattles, and riprap rocks you see around a construction site, those are there toContinue reading “Turbidity”
Bacon & Eggs
Think about your breakfast one morning when you have some time to ruminate what it actually took to get all that to your plate. The chicken’s involved, but the pig’s committed. One day you’ll have a decision to make in your life where you have to choose what you are. Probably more than one ifContinue reading “Bacon & Eggs”
Want a Do-Over?
Someone asked me the other day what part of my life I’d go back to. I think not one. I would love to have a day or two visit back to a few parts of my life but I can’t think of one part of my life I’d want a do-over for or one thatContinue reading “Want a Do-Over?”
Warning Signs Aren’t Random
Chances are 100% that if you’re on a dangerous road, there have been plenty of warning signs before you get to the 500′ cliff where the “end of construction” sign is. Choosing to ignore them will put you in a big time mess that was completely avoidable. God will give you 1,000+ detours & warningContinue reading “Warning Signs Aren’t Random”
Ant Beds Don’t Make Themselves
If you want something, sitting around wishing for it, lamenting or complaining about how it’s not working out will keep you in that spot forever. Make up for your lack of experience or ability with hard work and determination. You don’t see the ants laid out complaining or homeless because the humans and dogs canContinue reading “Ant Beds Don’t Make Themselves”
All Pretty Things Need Work
“If you’ve got a pretty house & a pretty yard, somebody’s done work in it,” my grandmother, Betty Creel White. And when you stop taking care of it, weeds start to grow and the shutters fall off. It’s not surprising that the same thing happens in our relationships when we quit working on them. Don’tContinue reading “All Pretty Things Need Work”
Highest & Best Use
A legacy to me isn’t money. It’s when the three areas of community, talents, and values intersect to create an environment where we’re maximizing our best potential. In real estate, it’s called highest and best use. “the reasonably probable and legal use of vacant land or improved property, which is physically possible, appropriately supported, financiallyContinue reading “Highest & Best Use”
Even Baby Birds Learn to Fly
It’s an odd moment the minute you accept the child you raised from a helpless baby is spreading their wings to fly away. But if all mama birds kept their babies in the nest, there’d be no more birds. The best way to love an adult child is to speak positivity into them, encourage themContinue reading “Even Baby Birds Learn to Fly”
Deeper Than a Puddle 